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Tuesday, March 29, 2011:
Ups & Downs...and ups!

Hello! I missed you guys! And my blog. I can't believe I've ignored you for so long. Okay, yes I can. I've been in a selfish mood and really haven't felt like making an effort. But that is done. I am tired of being sad about things I cannot control. Not to say I won't relapse from time to time, but there are other things, fun things to get excited about. So I will. Let's see, what's been going on:


- Weight: I have lost a total of 13 pounds since December. I keep wondering why not more, since I sweat my ass off at the gym 4-6 times a week and eat fairly healthy and drink a gallon of water a day. It's muscle, isn't it??? But as long as it stays off, I should be content, right?


- Job: I now work in downtown Chicago. Weird, because I never wanted to commute. Still don't, not really, but so far it's been rather fun. I am so looking forward to nicer weather and exploring the city more. And meeting some new people.


- Makeover! Okay, I haven't had one, but I intend to. Now that I'm working on being kinda cute, I need to look the part. I plan on going on a shopping spree and totally, okay partially, change how I look. I would love to get purple streaks in my hair, but I don't think my employer would be too thrilled with that though ;p


- Attitude: I'm getting one! I have been a mopey rag for far too long, and now I'm ready to be "me" again. Not to say that I didn't learn something while I was dealing with some personal stuff, because I sure did. And sometimes being proven right isn't all it's cracked up to be. But whatever. The main thing is not to lose yourself or to try to change for any other reason than you want to. I tend to be a people pleaser and really, it's not worth it most of the time. So time to get my bitch on.


- Books: I'm reading again. Go me! Finished Anne Rice's Beauty trilogy, which was dark, BDSM'y, yet whimsical. The last book draaagged for me, but overall, not a bad series.


- Music: obsessed with Silversun Pickup's Panic Switch. "Waitng and fading and floating away". Right now those words sum up some feelings I've had.


And now it's time to enjoy life again! Got a lot going on in the next few weeks. Meeting new friends for the first time in person, reading some great books, touring the seamier side of Chicago ;)


What's going on in YOUR world?

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Monday, February 07, 2011:
Hey! What I'm up to....
Hey you guys! Yes I'm alive and well, just haven't had much of a blogging mojo going on, but I think it's slowly awakening. Been busy watching some movies and catching up on some t.v shows. Done a little bit of reading. Just working on some self-improvement issues which are going slower than I'd like, but progress is being made. So life is GOOD. I am doing great, finally figuring things out and enjoying the experience. There have been ups and downs, but it's all part of the process.

So let's start with what I've been watching:

From the creative minds behind THE SHIELD and THE SOPRANOS comes this intense drama about an outlaw motorcycle club.

Bound by blood as well as by duty, Jackson Teller (Charlie Hunnam), his mother, Gemma (Katey Sagal), and his stepfather, Clay (Ron Perelman), are each prominent figures in a motorcycle gang that runs both a (legal) auto body shop and an (illegal) arms trade.

Season One follows each member as they struggle to contain their family secrets while battling drug dealers and law enforcement, and attempt to protect their quiet hometown of Charming, California. Action-packed and rife with dark humor, SONS OF ANARCHY debuted to critical acclaim for its blend of raucous, revved-engine fun and smart storytelling. This collection includes every episode from the show’s first season on FX.

Love this show! Growing up in a small, blue-collar area, I've always been a bit attracted to this kind of element, although none of the bikers I'd seen ever looked half as good as Jax ;) (Who, by the way, sounds just as sexy with an English accent) I want one of those. And I even have crushes on some of the other guys too: Tig, Chib, Juicy. All deranged, wild, crazy, but damn, HOT. Don't ask me why I like them too, I just do. And I don't care. I love this show, and can't wait to watch season 2, which is already in my Netflix q.

FIGHT CLUB is narrated by a lonely, unfulfilled young man (Edward Norton) who finds his only comfort in feigning terminal illness and attending disease support groups. Hopping from group to group, he encounters another pretender, or "tourist," the morose Marla Singer (Helena Bonham Carter), who immediately gets under his skin.

However, while returning from a business trip, he meets a more intriguing character--the subversive Tyler Durden (Brad Pitt). They become fast friends, bonding over a mutual disgust for corporate consumer-culture hypocrisy. Eventually, the two start Fight Club, which convenes in a bar basement where angry men get to vent their frustrations in brutal, bare-knuckle bouts.

Fight Club soon becomes the men's only real priority; when the club starts a cross-country expansion, things start getting really crazy.

Like Tyler Durden himself, director David Fincher's FIGHT CLUB, based on the novel by Chuck Palahniuk, is startlingly aggressive and gleefully mischievous as it skewers the superficiality of American pop culture. Outstanding performances by Norton and Pitt are supported by a razor-sharp script and an arsenal of stunning visual effects that include computer animation and sleight-of-hand editing. One of the most unique films of the late 20th century, FIGHT CLUB is a pitch-black comedy of striking intensity.

Can you believe I just watched this for the first time yesterday? I don't know why I didn't before. Love Brad. Love Edward Norton. HBC is usually a hoot and she does not disappoint here. Violence doesn't bother me. Well, whatever the reason, I finally watched it and loved it too. And I know there's definitely a Tyler Durden living inside of me, just itching to come out and wreak some crazy havoc.



Reading: Shadowfever! Taking my time with it, because I'm sad to see Barrons (and oh yeah, that Mac chick) go. So far I'm really enjoying it, though I still feel a little lost as to what is going on, but it's actually fun not to know everything. I feel like I'm on a bit of a roller coaster with it, just waiting for the next sharp turn. I love when a book can do that to me.



What I'm listening to: Pink is one of my girl crushes, and I am totally grooving to her song "Raise Your Glass". This one goes up to 11 on the volume scale in my car. Hey any anthem for "dirty little freaks" has got my approval ;)


So...what are you up to, my pretties???

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Tuesday, November 30, 2010:
I'm still me....

I realize with a lot of stuff I've been talking about lately (mostly on Twitter), some of those who may have known me for longer are wondering..."what the hell?" Well, rest assured, I am still me, and most likely always will be. I'm still reserved, and quiet. Still love reading hot books, loud music, driving fast, vanilla iced coffee, Gerard Butler, taking naps, Supernatural, warm summer nights, the annual Get-Together, and blue-collar guys. I still hate onions, idiot drivers, Nascar on US99, (I'd rather watch racing than listen to it, dammit!), being cold, shopping (except online), flying (only like the destinations) and Monday mornings. Not much as changed.


But I'm definitely going through some stuff now that scares me a little too, but not in a bad way. Truly. I'm just not sitting at home wondering why my life is not what I want it to be, and by that I mean I'm not staying on the sidelines. I'm careful, not stupid, and I haven't even really "done" anything, but my life is in a rut, and I need to find a way to get out of it. So it's about a whole lot of stuff: work, friends, family, all of it. Nothing bad, just something different. So, for example, say, when my pals from the Ge-Together see me next summer, I won't be any different than I was before. And I wanted to say that not because I'm doing anything wrong, but because you guys have been there with me a damn long time, and if it weren't for you, I wouldn't have such special people in my life. I wouldn't have taken that first drive to Cincy 6, 7 years ago and met so many of my online friends. That is a very valuable and important part of who I am. But I also need to open up more, discover things, and it's a little scary in the sense that I'm doing it on my own, but I guess that's how you learn, right?


Thank you for being here, for seeing me through my little dramas *g*, and I will continue to post about books and movies and all the other things I do love so much. You guys rock :)

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Monday, November 15, 2010:
Reflections

Much like everything else lately, I seem to be going through blogger block. After almost 5 years, it's not unusual for it to happen time to time, but it's at a time when I want to blog, but I feel seriously depleted of ideas. Could be the changing weather - I tend to be much more sluggish when it's cold and dark - or it could just be I don't have much to say. So I'll take a minute and look back and see what's been going on in 2010.

Once thing that's been on my mind a lot is a topic that both repels and fascinates me: BDSM. And before I go any further, let me tell you right now that no, I have not uncovered a deep, dark secret about myself. Not that there would be anything wrong with it, but the more I think about it and read about it and imagine it, I know deep in my heart I'm not wired that way. But what BDSM has done for me is opened my eyes to some things about myself. I think we all reach a point when we think we know ourselves so well. We believe we know if we're decent people, or if we're morally ambiguous, or somewhere in between. We are secure in our place in the world, in our sexuality, where we fit in with our family and friends. I thought that too, until I started becoming a little obsessed with the D/s lifestyle, yet consistently wondered why. I would test myself, read more about real-life people who were into it, and the more I read, the more confused I became because it didn't appeal to me other than on an extremely light, superficial level. But it taunted me. And after I gave it some time, I finally figured out why. Or at least I understood myself better.

I am a loner by nature. I have never been one to be dependent on others. I guess the way I grew up made it so, but at the same time, I truly believe we are born a specific way, and while events and emotions can shape us to a certain extent, our makeup is essentially what you were born to be. It also doesn't mean we can't change, but it's not an easy thing to do. Being a loner, I find it extemely uncomfortable to share a lot about myself, even the most mundane, ordinary events. I can't explain why, maybe it's some sense of being rejected that I never got over as a kid, but I tend to listen more than I talk. Now however, as I'm getting older, I notice myself becoming much more open with the people in my life. It was not a conscious decision to all of a sudden share the person that I am, it just sort of happened. And I think in part, it's because of some people I've met online (who I've mentioned before) are very open about their marriage and lifestyle.

It's weird how people I've never met in person - and even though they live in the same city most likely will never meet - have had such an impact on me. Maybe it's their confidence and their trust in each other as they also are exploring different avenues of their relationship that has encouraged me to share more of myself. It's true that you can't really have a meaningful relationship without sharing yourself, without giving trust, and I guess I need to learn how to do that. It's scary, but exciting at the same time.

Y'all are probably laughing right now, wondering what's the big deal. That's okay. That's part of the risk of opening up; is taking the chance that you might not always find happy, shiny acceptance on the other side. So be it. I'm learning new things about myself and realizing that the learning never stops. It might go on a break for a bit, but we are always discovering something new about ourselves. Kinda cool.


Has a topic or person caused you to learn

something new about yourself?

What was the experience like?

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Wednesday, September 29, 2010:
Randomness


1. What I'm reading: a few things actually. Another Wedding Night, a Harlequin Blaze by Leslie Kelly, and "Passion Unleashed", the 3rd book in Larissa Ione's Demonica series.

2. What I'm watching: season 1 of Nip/Tuck. I watched it way back (2003) but now because of tweep Kitty Thomas, I want to watch it again.

3. What I'm eating: I'm addicted to Panda Express' Honey Walnut Shrimp.

4. What I'm drinking: Lipton's Brisk raspberry iced tea.

5. Who I'm crushing on: Andy Whitfield (of Spartacus fame - see Monday's post)

6. What I'm listening to: "Grow Old With You" from the Wedding Singer. Cracks me up and melts my heart all at the same time.

7. What I'm dreaming about: spring! And going on a cruise. Anyone wanna go?

8. What I'm doing: (hopefully) a booksigning for Joelle Charbonneau on Saturday.

9. What I'm saving my money for: an iPad. And a car. Need many more dollars for that one!

10. What I'm believing: that Karma will come back to bite you, so think twice before doing that really mean thing now, cuz yeah, it's unbelievably tempting now, but will the consequences be worth it later? Yes? Then okay, go ahead and do it! *g*

11. What I'm tired of: radio commercials during the new fall t.v. season. Hearing the same ad 5 times in 5 minutes is beyond irritating.

12. What I'm hoping for: happiness.

13. What I'm doing now (besides typing this post): tweeting and listening to Nickelback

14. What I hate about getting older so far: I've gotten so damn sensitive. Someone needs to smack me!

15. What I pray for: That all the people in my life who are hurting find something to take away the pain.

16. What I crave: um, yeah, THAT. Also Dove's Cherry Cordial Courtship ice cream.

17. What/who inspires me: selfless people

18. What amuses me: inappropriate and/or dirty jokes (I just saw "Hot Tub Time Machine" and loved it!)

19. What drives me: the fear of being homeless!

20. What I'm curious about: what's on YOUR mind?

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Tuesday, August 31, 2010:
Reader blogs: what keeps you coming back?

I've seen a few posts over the last few weeks from readers that talk about changing their blog, or defining what direction they are going with their blog, and it got me thinking about my own blog. This place continues slowly to evolve, and mostly I've managed to keep it my own. But at the same time, I don't want to set any parameters on how I run this place. One day I might have an author, and another a favorite hottie. The next a more serious topic. Or the awesome guest blogger interviews. And hopefully a review here and there. But I don't want a specific purpose for my blog, other than it be about things I care about.

I notice I tend to be really hard on myself because I don't read as much as other bloggers, and I have to stop from comparing myself to others. Why do I do this to myself? It shouldn't matter. I'm a different person, so my personal expectations should only pertain to me, right? And that is what I'm determined to do. Make this a cozy little place that I can live with, and not worry what the Jones are up to. Because at the end of the day, it's my place, no one else's.

When I think about it more indepth, I realize I do want to also have more serious topics. I have some ideas in mind, I just need to organize my thoughts and write them in a clear, understandable, somewhat intelligent way. Wish me luck *g*

And I'm curious about other bloggers and their visitors, so you know what that means: Last week I asked you what you look for in an author website/blog. This week I want to know:


What makes you visit reader blogs?

What are some of your favorite reader blogs?

What don't you like about reader blogs?

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Thursday, August 26, 2010:
Odds and ends

Okay! Well I had intended to have something else post today, but I am quite hungover today (which is extremely rare for me) so I didn't write up my blog. I thought I'd do a roundup of sorts instead:
  • Shiloh Walker wrote an excellent post earlier this week about social media and how many authors, especially newer ones, are doing it wrong. I wholeheartedly agree with her post, and if you haven't gotten a chance to read it, here it is. Believe me, she nailed it.

  • You still have a chance to win a copy of K.T. Grant's For The Love of Mollie. Just go here.

  • My favorite martini bar is closing on Saturday, and I just found out last night, hence the overindulging. Nobody makes a Bella rose martini quite like this place. So sad to see it close :(

  • Thank YOU for all the feedback about authors and websites and whatyouwhatyouwhat you want (sorry, that song is playing in my head, and it hurts). I haven't gotten a chance to read all the comments, but I fully intend to review them and pass them along. You guys are great :)

  • If you guys haven't tried Groupon, I highly recommend it. I got a $55 gift certificate for about $20 to my favorite martini bar, and we used it last night, so it was totally worth it. I didn't have to pay anything to join, and it works. There's also Living Social Deals and Buy With Me. I haven't tried them yet, but it's the same concept. Love it.
Well that's all for now. If I think of anything else, I'll let you know. Have a good one, and beware those sweet devil martinis....

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Tuesday, August 17, 2010:
Keith Urban, Fur Con and this guy named Terrible...

I gotta admit that I had a fantasic weekend! I wish they all could be this fun. But if they were, we probably wouldn't appreciate them as much, now would we?

First, I took Friday off to drive the 3 hours and 42 minutes Mapquest says it takes to get to Indianapolis, which I'm fairly used to since it's the same way I take to Cincinnati every June. I both love and hate the drive. I hate it because traffic out of Chicago, especially on a Friday, just sucks. And I have to get there like yesterday. I'm sure I've said it before, but I am one of those crazy drivers that tailgates and races past you if you get in my way. Sorry dude, but you asked for it. So yeah, I shaved about 1/2 hour off my time. Could have been more, but those damn semi trucks are EVOL.



Anyway, once I got there, I met Barb there at the hotel, and we learned what other "big" event was going on in town. A little thing called Fur Con, or more specifically, the Indy Fur Con. This seems to be at least an annual event, and it's, well, rather different. I asked a group of them what exactly it was all about, and one of them said it's about being people with animal (anthropomorphic) characteristics. It seems rather tame, considering that they were parading around the hotel, quite literally had a parade on Saturday in the lobby, however several people confirmed it's also considered a sex fetish, and there were times they would sit in clusters and pet each other. Yes, in public. I don't know what to make of it all, other than to say it was rather bizarre. I'm all for people living their own lives, but some of this might be a little too open in public. o_O Still, it was cute when they would pose with the kids, just like they were at Disney or something. That was sweet.


But the big attraction of my weekend was KEITH URBAN! Now I've been a fan for years, but this was the first time going to one of his concerts. For the price we paid, I figured we'd see him being about the size of a speck of sand, but they weren't bad seats at all. Row 37 in the stands, dead center. Not too shabby. It was at the Indiana state fair, and it was HOT. I was dripping, that's how humid and crowded we all were. Yet I was there with my pals Barb, LuAnn, Dianne Daphne and Deb, and we survived. And you know what, that's okay. Because Keith put on one HELL of a show. He was fantastic. Loved every minute of it. And I especially got a kick out of how he'd have us sing some silly verse and just start laughing because we'd do it. He was like a little kid. So cute :) He did "talk" to Nicole, who supposedly was on the sidelines, but we didn't actually see her. That would have been cool. I do like them together.

He didn't play my favorite song, "Once In a Lifetime (Love)", but the rest were outstanding. And his band is extremely talented as well, with at least two of them able to belt out a tune. I can't wait to go see him again. I'm not normally big on getting t-shirts at concerts, but I went and got me a Keith t-shirt. Just couldn't help myself LOL.


Other than that, my only other news is that I am incredibly hooked, addicted, completely and irrevocably in love with this character named Terrible!

For those of you in the dark, Terrible is this guy in Stacia Kane's DOWNSIDE GHOSTS series. Now I read all the tweets on Twitter, and say all the mushy talk and longing for this guy, but I didn't think it could possibly be all that great. Boy was I ever WRONG! Terrible is so not your typical hero. He's quite ugly (at least that's how Stacia writes him), big, hulking, terrifying. But then, like Chess, you really get to know him and it's his heart you fall for, and his looks are no longer ugly to you. He's loyal, fearless, earthy, practical, clever, and so damn strong it makes your heart race. Or as Shiloh Walker would say, "he's one sexy beast". And he truly is. He's a hero, through and through. An unlikely one, but also an unforgettable one.

I'm not ashamed to admit I've got Terrible fever. In fact I'll probably need to get a new set of books because I've re-read so many parts of these 3 already. Numerous times. I will probably got and write a review on the series at some point, once I can put them down long enough to actually write something coherent. So for now I'll wallow in my Terrible love, and give sincere thanks to that creative goddess Stacia who created this magnificent man to begin with!




Do you have the fever?

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Wednesday, July 28, 2010:
The goings-on around here
That saying about feast or famine is so true. I've either got nothin', or too much of a lot of things. Right now a lot is going on. Or has gone on. Or I just wanna ramble.....


On reviews:



  • Status: stalled. I have been in a severe reviewer slump for the last 2 or 3 weeks, and it's putting me into a bit of a panic. I've read some really good books I want to review, but the well has run dry. I don't know how to get the juices flowing again. It's driving me kinda crazy. I haven't had a problem finding good books to read (in fact I've ordered probably 12 books from B&N in the last month) it's that I've had a problem talking about them. I think I bore myself when I write up reviews, so I just don't have the desire right now, and that is a shame. There are so many fantastic authors out there whose books should be talked about. And I'm failing miserably.

On YouTube:

Status: addicted. Once again, thanx to those "bad influences" over on Twitter, I have recently become addicted to watching old clips from some of my favorite soap operas: Santa Barbara, Sunset Beach, Another World, Days of Our Lives. I'm hooked on Cruz & Eden from SB, Father Antonio & Gabi from SB, Dean & Jenna from AW, and Jack & Jennifer from DooL. These were the soaps I watched back in the day during those melodramatic teen years, and I find that they still have a hold over me. (Guilty pleasure: "Song for Jenna" by Dean. I just can't help myself, I'm hooked on this cheesy, mediocre song. Plus I had a mega crazy crush on Ricky Paull Goldin back then, and he's still a cutie in the clips, despite the outdated hairstyle - it was 1991/1992 after all. And I wanted to be Jenna sooooo bad!). Please tell me I'm not the only one who's done something like this. Please.

On reading:



Status: slow and steady. Things are going very well with my reading, and I've for the most part really been enjoying the books I've been indulging in. I finished book #3 in the Mercy Thompson series, and now have been enjoying, for the most part, Erin McCarthy's Hot Finish. The Suzanne I loved so much in the first 2 books is not so great right now. In fact I'm rather irritated with her, and think Ryder should go find someone else who will actually appreciate him more. However I'm still reading, so there's always a chance someone will be redeemed in my eyes.

On food:

  • Status: consuming. My "new" favorite thing right now is chocolate ice cream. I've never been the biggest fan of ice cream, but lately I love it, and have to have at least a small scoop everyday. Of course that's my calcium intake, so in my mind, I'm doing nothing wrong. And I get the added benefit of chocolate. See, it's all good.

On Josh Bernstein:

  • Status: unavailable! *sob* My love has gone and got himself engaged. Imagine my complete and utter heartbreak to see this tweet from July 12th: "Great news! Happy to report that my girlfriend and I got engaged over the weekend! We're both ecstatic." Total sadness. I could say the only reason he and I aren't together is only because because he hasn't met me yet but actually, he has. Obviously I was the only one who felt the connection at day 3 1/2 years ago when he was in town for a booksigning. (To contribute to one of Josh's causes, actually you can click here).

On t.v./movies:

  • Status: enjoying. I've recently completed season 2 of House and part 1 of season 3 of Entourage (what is that all about anyway? Why does a season need more than one part when there are only so many episodes to begin with?) I always forget how much I really like a show until I start watching it again. This is especially true of Entourage. I think why do I bother, but then I push play and I'm all caught up in the drama, the raunchiness, the humor, the stupid situations these guys get themselves into. I'm not hot for any of the characters - even Adrian Grenier is just meh to me - but it's funny, and dirty, and silly, and about a world I know absolutely nothing about. Pure, mindless fun. I love it.

On bad days:

  • Status: I have them. The last two days I've had a few crazy things happen. There was the attempted break-in into my house yesterday (Tuesday) morning, where I was woken up by the police. As you can imagine, it freaked me out while being complete surreal at the same time. It's not how it is on t.v., but then it is. When it happens to you, your fist thought - at least in my case - is not that I'd take down anyone who tried to rob me, but that I want to get the hell away from here as soon as possible. I ended up going to work because I'm not good at moping around during times like that, and it helped. I thought I'd have trouble sleeping last night, but nope, not a bit. Then I get a call from the credit card company about fraudulent charges on my account. No biggie (I work for a credit union so I know the drill), but it was just funny, considering what happened earlier in the day. It kinda sucked to be me.

On contests:

  • Status: unresponsive. The last few contests I've had lately, I've had a heck of a time getting in touch with the winners. Twice now, despite my efforts to contact the person, I haven't had any success. I eventually picked a new winner for the copy of Twice Bitten (I'll try to get that book out this week!) and the winner of the movie prize never responded, so I'll be picking another winner for that one as well. It throws me off my game. And I (hopefully) have some fun contests coming up, so I hope people want the swag.

That's all I got for now. Hopefully things are going well in your world. Missing everyone who went to RWA, but I can't say I'm regretting not going to Florida in July. Still, it would have been awesome to be there. I've never been to Disney World, so that in itself would have been a blast.

How are things with you?


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Tuesday, July 20, 2010:
Random stuff and a new winner
***Look at the pretties! These were in my mailbox when I got home last night *pets*. I am so excited to read Hot Finish so I can finally read Ryder's and Suz's story. I'm sure it's gonna be HOT! And I'm also excited about the novella, though I've already read part of the story already. I'm falling in love with werewolves....

***And speaking of Suz, she's posted the cover to Izzy's story, Breaking the Rules. Release date set for 3/22/11. So, so, SO far away!!! But this is at the top of my most anticipated books right now (followed closely by Shadowfever). I think having Izzy fall in love with be spectacular. I didn't think I'd like him, but the guy grew on me.




***Going to my first ever Cubs game tonight. Not a huge fan of the baseball (I prefer more, um, active sports, like hockey(!) or football but I'm looking forward to it, even if I might regret it in the morning.

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Well I have done everything within my power to locate the winner of this book - drawing was over 2 weeks ago on July 6th. I checked my email, my spam folder, and tried to locate the winner via blogger. No such luck. So I am going to have to draw a new winner.


Van_Pham - I've emailed you for your snail mail addy - it's from trelainastarblazer AT yahoo dot com - please respond by July 27th. If I don't hear from you, I will have a brand new contest.



van_pham
patti
jeanette8042
Ina
Estella
marian
Orannia
Liza
ParaJunkee
throuthehaze
Lynne
Heather (Darkly Reading)
jellybelly82158
Alyssa
Twimom227
valkyrierisen
Lisa R.
Linda7849
Aik
tenshinohanran
DrkCherry
Bethany C.
Dot S.
host
Dottie (Tink's Place)
Robin K.


What's going on in YOUR world?

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Thursday, July 01, 2010:
Just...whatever
I'm feelin' a little fiesty today ;)

I have been HORRIBLE about reading and reviewing these past 2 weeks, so I don't have anything really ready to post. I'm working on about a dozen posts, but none are fit for print, so you guys are stuck with the goings-on in my mind *g*
  • My 20th high school reunion is this weekend, but I'm not going. I had debated attending, and then some travel plans were in the works but ended up being postponed, yet in the end I decided not to go. I'm a bit sad about that, since it's not near where I live, but mostly I'm okay with it. I keep in touch with only a few of my h.s. friends, mainly through FB, and that's enough for me. There's just something about going back home that makes me feel like a shy awkward teenager (versus a shy, awkward adult LOL) and I don't relish that feeling. Maybe when I'm in my 60's I'll be past that feeling.
  • So far I don't have any big plans for the 4th, and I'm actually kinda relieved! Lately I've been going out more than I usually do and spending more money than I should, so it would be nice to just relax. However if I find some low-key way to enjoy it, I won't say no. But I have this insatiable urge to just be lazy. I feel like I should feel guilty about that, that I should definitely want to be surrounded by mobs of people, but really, I don't.
  • I got caught in one of those maudlin moods recently and sunk so low to actually lament my single status. 99...95...okay, 75% of the time I'm content and rather glad I don't have to share myself and compromise with someone else, but every once in awhile, someone will make a comment about their DH or BF and I get all weird and weepy. God I hate that! Self, get over it!
  • Eclipse: I'll be going on Friday. The more I hear, the more excited I get. Seems the general consensus is that it's the best of the 3 so far. Perhaps not the most glowing endorsement, considering, but I really can't wait. I'm a Jacob girl ;)
  • I'm still only on the first Mercy Thompson book, Moon Called, and I'm enjoying it, but I haven't had a lot of time to sit down and read, which sucks. Another reason I'm hoping for a lazy, Stacy weekend.

Well that's about it. What's happening with you?

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Friday, June 18, 2010:
Some stuff

Well I have to admit I'm quite pleased with how the guest interviews are going, and I'm having quite a bit of fun putting them together. Upcoming posts you can expect will include Katiebabs, Susi Sunshine, Liza, Limecello, and Sagi, with more on the way. I might change up the questions a bit, nothing too major, but just to keep it fresh. I hope you all are enjoying it as much as I am. I love getting to know everyone even more. Even though some people might be more open than others, I think I'm still learning new things about everyone.

Nothing major going on this weekend. I plan to have a Mercy Thompson reading marathon, having just gotten the first 4 books in the series. Really looking forward to that. Updated to add: some darling friend on Twitter sent me the ARC for Chloe Neill's Twice Bitten! So plans have changed. I'm gonna sink my teeth into some vampires ;) Oh, and Gerard Butler. Have at least 2 of his movies to watch this weekend. Not a bad way to pass the time.




Here is the final collection of pennies. So far the total hasn't been tallied (I just took this picture) but hopefully next week we will find out. These are pretty big jars, and they're very heavy, so I hope the $$ count is fairly high. Thank you again to those of you who sent me pennies. Y'all gonna make me cry for being so sweet.

That's about it for now. Tonight me and my coworkers are going to go and ruin the week-long healthy eating marathon we've been on, and I sooo cannot wait *g*


Any big weekend plans?

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Tuesday, June 01, 2010:
This 'n that
6th Annual
Readers and Authors Get Together
from Lori Foster, Dianne Castell, Linda Keller
Friday, June 4 — Sunday, June 6, 2010
Cincinnati Marriott North at Union Centre, West Chester Ohio



If you don't see any updated posts, it may be because I'm taking a brief hiatus from the blog for the next few days or maybe even weeks. Haven't decided. All depends on how much I can get done in the next few days before I take off to Cincy. If all goes according to plan, I'll be leaving early Thursday morning (can you say 6am...maybe) and will return on Sunday afternoon. I plan to bring my camera, phone, and laptop, so hopefully I can post pics throughout the day.


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Thank you so much for all the feedback on my post about reviews. I read all the comments and appreciate what you each had to say. I think based on my thoughts about reviewing, I'm going to try and work on them to make them more cohesive, but don't plan on changing my current style too much. And I'll continue to keep spoilers to a minimum. I learned a lot from your comments, so it was definitely a valuable inquiry and I got a lot out of it. You guys keep me on my toes *g*


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Also, I LOVED all the responses to my contest and who you'd choose as you vampire sire. You guys are, for the most part, naughty wenches whom I love and adore *g* I've learned a lot from y'all.


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I finished season 1 of Bones and loved it. Fun, smart, suspenseful show. Next up is season 1 of Mad Men. Really looking forward to it.


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Watched Gamer over the weekend. As much as I love Gerard, this movie is not how I'd choose to spend my time. And Milo was creepy in a gross way, not in a hot way, so I didn't care for him either.

What would you recommend to see/stay away from?

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Monday, May 03, 2010:
A thank you, a cause, a piss off, and other goings on around here
Well, can I just say I'm a little mortfied by all the sombre introspection I've been doing the last few days. I'm usually not so honest about personal stuff, but I've been more tired than lately. I do want to give a huge shout-out to the lovely people who've stopped by and commented. I appreciate your comments and it's nice to have some company LOL. Big hug to Karen from http://www.karenknowsbest.com/ who mentioned me on her awesome blog. I really hope I'm sending out a positive message about self-esteem. We all have our bad days but dammit, we are freakin' awesome!

Today I'm back on track and living in the land of the superficial. I think the vitamins are helping *g* So to watch away my slight embarrassment at the attention, I'm going to talk about what's going on out there.



First off, it's Brenda Novak's annual Diabetes auction. It's May again, so Brenda's got her auction going on in full force. I love that this happens every year. I have yet to win anything, but that doesn't mean I don't try :) It's all for a good cause.


Then we have David Boreanaz cheating on his wife. I'm not going to spend a lot of time talking about this, and it's rather sad that this didn't surprise me in the slightest. I find these celebrities to be complete morons for not thinking they were going to get caught, and no, I don't give him ANY credit for telling his wife before announcing it to the world. He knew it was gonna blow up in his face and he was just trying to prevent a fall-out "ala Jesse James". I think after awhile with all the women that throw themselves at these celebrities they have a certain sense of entitlement and take it as one of the "benefits" of living in the public eye. Not. Buying. It. I feel bad for his wife and kids. He can go piss off.



Big shout-out to my gal Bells for talking up JA Saare. Later this month I'll be posting an interview with JA and having a contest for a copy of "Dead, Undead or Somewhere In Between". I'll tell ya right now you're gonna love Rhiannon. She rocks it, and Disco is pretty damn fine as well ;)



I'm participating in the Chloe Neill blog tour, so mark your calendars for June 29th, for fun, surprises, and giveaways :) Chloe will be doing an interview with me, so I've gotta get crackin' on those questions.

And now for my latest guilty pleasure: viewing sensual pics that have been Tweeted on Twitter. Some of them are pretty raunchy and explicit, but the subtle, sexy, provocative, ones are my favorites. Here is an example of what I've been enjoying. I think they are a lovely visual of the sexy books I read, and okay, they're hot. I don't mind admitting that. I must sound like such a voyeur. Okay I am. But I also like seeing beautiful, enticing imagery. So sue me ;)


What's going on in YOUR world?


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Wednesday, February 10, 2010:
Dean Day, earthquakes, lost iPhones, oh my!
Crazy, crazy world out there. While we got snow in our area yesterday, it was probably only around 8 inches (I'm too lazy to look it up), which is nothing to us that live in the midwest. Yeah, it's a pain in the ass, but it's managable. No excuse not to show up to work though, unfortunately. Now it's cold, and drifting, but the worst seems to be over. For now.

However what was really interesting was that there was a 3.8 earthquake that rumbled this morning around 4am, and yes, it did wake me up. Me, who can usually sleep through anything, was jolted awake wondering if the roof caved in. The last one we had, in April of 2008. was registered at a magnitude of 5.2 on the Richter Scale. Fortunately there was no damage or injuries in my world, so back to our regular scheduled programming.

No, the main focus of my attention recently has been the misfortune of losing my phone. I learned the hard way that Apple does not provide insurance for the iPhone, and it is NOT cheap to get a new one. While I received great service and got a lot of assistance getting back as much of the info I had on my lost phone transferred to the new phone, it was still painful. The funny thing is, as my co-worker mentioned, how I agonized over getting a new phone and that I never splurge on anything really expensive. Then I get a fancy phone and I lose it 3 months later. It was more a case of someone taking it, I believe, because I know where I lost it and even went back the next day to try and find it, but no such luck. To the bastard that took it, I hope you get yours LOL.

And then we have Valentine's Day coming up this weekend. As a single woman, I admit to a twinge every year around this time, but this year it seems to be a little stronger than normal. Part of me thinks it's the long winter and stress, but there's the romantic in me that would love to have a cute boyfriend to share it with. I'm thinking God must have someone really special in mind for me to have me wait for so long LOL. I have to admit, I'm getting rather impatient.

But since the is no guy in my life to cuddle with this weekend, Valentine's Day is going to be a celebration of a different sort this year. It's called....D-DAY! (aka Dean Day). Several of us on Twitter are huge fans of the show "Supernatural", and most especially of one of the main characters, Dean Winchester, played so brilliantly by Jensen Ackles, and we decided to host Dean Day on Valentine's Day. And let me tell you, it's been fun working on my post. I cannot wait to see what the other ladies conjure up, all for the love of Dean ;)

So if you're not too busy on Sunday with your honey, or maybe you are a big fan of Dean and/or the show, be sure to stop by and see what kinds of treats we have in store for you. I know I'll be making the rounds and enjoying the various pictures and posts.


So, what's going on in YOUR world?

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Saturday, January 16, 2010:
Ready for the weekend....
Well, I know you guys are going to miss me while I'm away, LOL, so hence the weekend blog post. As you read this, I'll be in Arizona with about 70 of my coworkers taking part in a team-building experience. Yes, that's how I like to spend my 3-day weekends. But hey, it's Arizona in January, so really, it's not the worst thing in the world.

Lets' see, what's a-happenin'? Well (hanging head in shame) I still haven't sent out the prizes for my anniversary contest. I'm so awful, and can offer no legitimate excuses. But I can promise it will be done before the end of the month. Just a lot going on right now and my energy level in winter is near nil.

Reading: nothing. No slump for me, just haven't selected my next book yet. This weekend there will be little or no reading time, and I am already stressing out from early withdrawal.

Listening to: Orianthi's "According to You". Yes I'm totally mainstream, and this is a catchy little ditty, but not in an annoying way. Earworm: Tick Tock. Hate it so much I love it.

Watching: covered that already. Brothers & Sisters, and have 2 more episodes of Season 4 of Supernatural. Heard rumors about Sam/Dean (Jared/Jensen) as in togethertogether. Hmmm, what a M/M romance that would make.....

Contemplating: driving up to Wisconsin next weekend to see Chloe Neill in Wisconsin. It's not far, but I got stuff going on, so I might not be able to swing it. However she might not make it any closer to Chicago, and I'll be sincerely bummed if I miss out.

Dying for: Nickelback tickets! They are back in town this May, and I HAVE to go, I just have to!

Drinking: Starbucks coffee...and it's growing on me. Not a fan of the diesel fuel, but the regular coffee maker at work is broken and all that's left is Starbucks, so I gave in and indulged. After two weeks, I think it's finally working its magic. Now if I had a choice I'd still rather drink regular, cheap coffee, but the Starbucks isn't bad. Just too damn expensive.

Praying for: those in Haiti, as well as their families across the world. Such devastation, it just breaks my heart. Those images are just horrifying, and I cannot imagine going through that. So grateful for my blessings. But what does make me feel good is my employer is matching donations up to $25,000!

Enjoy your weekend, and I'll be seeing you again real soon..... :)

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Sunday, January 10, 2010:
Contest update & some upcoming reader/writer events
The 2010 Reader and Author Get Together

June 4th – 6th, 2010

Cincinnati Marriott North at Union Centre, West Chester Ohio
Registration will open on Lori’s site in January 2010 – so check back then!

I hope to see you there this year. I'm so looking forward to another fun event. I already know a few people won't be attending (Kati! *sob*) but I hope many of you will be able to. June sounds pretty good right about now.

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Just to clarify about my blog anniversary contest: there were only 4 winners: PJ, Maureen, Liza and maered. Someone thought because their name was on the list that they were a winner, but what I did was include all the names that posted who wanted to be entered in the contest. I hope that clears up any confusion, and I apologize if anyone else thought the same.

Oh, and just in case anyone was wondering, I do make my contests available to anyone who can receive mail, and out of these 4 winners, 1 of them was actually from another country, so yes, I practice what I preach LOL. To the winners: prizes have not gone out yet, but I hope to work on that this week. I have a business trip coming up so I've been a bit busy. But I promise you will not be forgotten.

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My pal Dani told me about this event, and I'm really looking forward to attending!

If anyone else is in the Chicagoland area and plan to attend,

I'll love to meet you!


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SPRING FLING
WRITERS' CONFERENCE


April 23 - 24, 2010
Deerfield, IL


Saturday, April 24, 2010
4:30 - 6:00 pm

Open to the Public


Meet your favorite authors and get copies of their latest releases!

Here's the current list of wonderful authors who'll be in attendance:

CHERRY ADAIR
LAURA MOORE
MARILYN BRANT
ANNEMARIE ORTEGA
LAURIE BROWN
JENNA PETERSEN
LYDIA DARE
JULIA QUINN
BLYTHE GIFFORD
ABIGAIL REYNOLDS
ELIZABETH HOYT
ERICA RIDLEY
JULIE JAMES
DEBRA ST. JOHN
MARGOT JUSTES
JAN SCARBROUGH
BETH KERY
JUNE SPROAT
JADE LEE
ANGIE STANTON
LINDSAY LONGFORD
JENNIFER STEVENSON
ANN MACELA
KAY STOCKHAM
MYRNA MACKENZIE
KIMBERLY SULLIVAN
KELLY MAHER
MARGARET WATSON
MORGAN MANDEL


What's going on in your world?

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Sunday, December 06, 2009:
Here's where I'm going and other goings-on....

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St. Pete Beach, Florida

As this is being posted, I am currently on my way to Florida for a business trip, and this is the area where I'll be. I'm excited because the weather has to be at least 30 to 40 degrees warmer than where I live, so that in itself is a good thing. I'll be back Thursday night sometime.

While I'm away, I won't have much (if any) internet access as I'm leaving the laptop at home. I have my phone, but blogging from that seems too much like work, so I'm not ignoring you, I'm just limited on resources. Any contests I'm running prior to leaving will be finalized when I return (you know me....world's biggest procrastinator!)

Speaking of contests, I did want to answer a question Marisa had asked me about "The Ugly Truth" in my contest post and why it was one of my favorite movies of 2009. Well, I saw several movies (and there are some I have yet to see before the year is up, i.e. "The Blind Side) but this movie, which is very politically incorrect and derogatory and raunchy, just hit the right tone with me at the time. I really liked it. It's not a piece of cinema brilliance, but after seeing so many "meh" movies that didn't register much after I left the theatre, this one I just plain enjoyed. It wasn't perfect by any means, and the whole "anal, prissy, uptight" female lead is beyond old, but whatever. Some cliche's can be really entertaining, and this one was.

I am feeling a little stressed out because for as long as I've been blogging, I still enjoy the process, and hate that I won't have time to devote to it this week. I tried to get some worked before I left, so those are in the works, but the following week might be sparse. I know, why should I worry about something so silly, right? I just do. I get to make myself the focus and talk about all the things I love (or think about, or rant over) and I have the floor all to myself, even if no one is listening. The biggest of course being my love of romances (and all the genres and subgenres). It's one part of my life that none of my real life friends share, and that makes it really lonely sometimes LOL. I want to tell my coworkers all about Jeaniene Frost or Lisa Kleypas or Ann Aguirre, and none of them get it. It's no fun gushing alone. So my blog (and Twitter) suffers the consequences *g* I do so adore my online friends :)

Holiday stuff: I'm pretty much done, and I cut back soooo much this year. I elected not to write Christmas cards, except for some to the troops. That's it. Well, my parents too. It's so weird because I LOVE sending out Christmas cards. This year, I just wasn't feeling it. So rather than force myself, I decided not to bother. I'm hoping next year I'll be back on track.

That's about it, without getting maudlin. The holidays are a time I always feel a little sad while also getting a little swept up in the magic of it all. I still remember the feeling I had when I believed in Santa Claus, and it's stayed with me all these years, which is why it's still magical. And I'm so grateful for all the blessings I have. I really am very, very lucky. Sure there are things I wish that were different, but I'm not going to concentrate on that. I'm going to remember all what I do have, not least of which is a TBR pile that will keep me busy for the rest of my life LOL.

So off I go! I've got several books with me, including book #2 & 3 of the Twilight series, A Shannon K. Butcher book, and perhaps Devon Monk's first in her series. I am easily distracted while out of town, and I will be with several coworkers, so I'm saving #3 & #4 of Frost's books to savor for when I return. I'll miss you guys, and can't wait to hear about all the amazing books you're reading and pimpin'. Catch ya soon.......

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Tuesday, November 10, 2009:
the happenings at my place
It's been awhile since I've talked about what I've been up to, other than reading, plus I don't have an "O" author for my spotlight, and I'm not ready with "P", so I'm taking this week off. Since I'm the most boring person on the planet, I haven't really had much to talk about lately, other than books, and my serious case of reader envy LOL. Which, in case anyone misunderstood, was all (mostly) tongue-in-cheek. I think if I stepped away from the computer more, I'd actually get some reading done! Yeah, good luck with that *g*

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Sunday was a lot of fun, as I trekked into the city to meet up with some friends at the Drake Hotel for afternoon tea, something I've never been before. The weather was so nice - almost 70 degrees in November - and the train ride was smooth and quick. Grabbed a taxi the rest of the way there which took a few minutes. I love taxi cab drivers. They get to where you need to go, and fast. And while I waited, I did try to take some pictures on my new phone, but I only saved one. I'll need to figure out a way to make them bigger....


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Now I've made no secret that I'm not much of a tea drinker, or at least I wasn't much of one until about a few years ago when I stepped inside Teavana to buy a gift, and tasted the most wonderful tea I'd ever could have imagined. It was a combination of 2 different teas, the kinds of which escapes me at the moment, but it was an amazing blend. Anyway, each of us got to choose our own tea, which they brought out in individual teapots for us, and I went with a caffeine-free blend, the chocolate mint truffle, which was very good, not too strong and not too sweet. I would definitely have that one again.

We sat right next to the harp player, which I really liked. I didn't think she was too loud, though some of her musical selections had us cringing. Still, it's a beautiful instrument, and if you didn't listen to closely, very enjoyable to listen to while sipping tea and eating cucumber sandwiches. It was a lovely way to spend the afternoon.

Tomorrow I'm meeting up with an online friend I've never met before - Danielle. She lives not all that far from me, but this is our first opportunity to get together, and I'm really looking forward to it :) I think I will take my regular camera and use that instead of my phone, which I still have to master. I hope to have some good pictures to post. Danielle's been warned LOL.

I am just about to finish the 7th and final season of The Gilmore Girls; 2 more episodes left. All in all, I liked it way more than I thought I would. It was a pleasant surprise. Now I'm going to try and clear out my Netflix queue before asking for more viewing selections. I have about 70 dvds in there, some movies, mostly t.v. shows, so I hope to whip through those more finding more new shows to love. Do I dare start 24 when it's just about to go into, what, it's 8th season??????

Now I'm off to go read for a bit. I have a few days off from work and I FINALLY got my copy of Ava Gray's "Skin Game", which I've been whining about for days on Twitter. Now that it's in my hot little hands, I plan on spending some quality time with Reyes. So off I go.....


What have you been up to lately?

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Wednesday, October 14, 2009:
Drive-by....
I'm still in my weird blogging funk, and don't really have much energy to commit to my beloved corner of the world here, but I will be back. I totally bailed on my planned birthday bash, but that's okay. God willing, there's always next year for that.

I've been reading a lot, which is quite a good thing. Finished the first 2 of Roxanne St. Claire's Bullet Catcher books, read Opal Carew's Secret Ties which really wasn't all that bad but not all that super hot either. BDSM lite, which I didn't mind, but it could have been so much steamier. It just didn't get my hormones raging, which is the sole reason I bought the book. Yes, I admit that I do read some books just for the dirty parts. Just wish this one would have delivered. And in other reading news, I'm now reading Kylie Brant's Waking Nightmare, and it's pretty good. Not quite as absorbing as Leslie Parrish's books, but I'm liking this one a lot. Hope to have more to report on Kylie in the next few weeks.

For my birthday, one of my friends took me out to lunch and to see "The Hangover", which I'd heard nothing but great things about. I was so looking forward to a raunchy, inappropriate movie, and this was definitely that. But that's all it was. Where the hell was the funny? I think either I had out-of-this-world high expectations or they tried way too hard here. Even the teenaged boys sitting in front of us thought it sucked.


Don't get me wrong, I'll drool over Bradley Cooper any day of the week (even though he was pretty much a jerk for most of the movie), and I'm not easily offended in the least, but damn, I was not much amused either. The whole Mr. Chow thing was just downright creepy, and the potential to be hugely and outrageously runny was bursting at the seams here, but it just wasn't working for me. Out of the 30 people in the theatre, I wasn't the only one who felt this way. Heard there's going to be a sequel. I can wait til DVD....

Still watching Gilmore Girls. Halfway through season 6. I've got about 80 DVDs in my Q to get through before I feel ready to replenish. So many tv shows, so little time........


How've you been?


What's going on in your world?

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